In 2020, solo media buyer (and also co-owner at Defo.cc and owner at Entropy LLC) Mikhail Svinarev said in an interview that dating is “an evergreen vertical that will be around for a very long time. There are always new users interested in connecting with people of their preferred gender.” Four years later, in August 2024, at the Kinza 360 conference, he confirms: nothing has changed, dating still works as well as ever. Between these two statements were a pandemic, Facebook ban waves, and the rise and fall of dozens of traffic sources. Yet the vertical stands strong to this day.
This is the main reason why both beginners with a $100 budget and serious teams keep running dating offers. People will never stop wanting serious relationships or, even more so, sex. Which means someone will always be making money from it.
Let’s break down how dating traffic arbitrage works, how much you can earn, and which geos, affiliate networks, and traffic sources to start with.
What is Dating in Traffic Arbitrage
Dating is a vertical in affiliate marketing where you drive traffic to dating sites and apps, and the affiliate program pays you for each registered or paying user.
| The vertical is convenient for beginners because you’re not selling a product or convincing someone to take out a loan. You’re sending people to a place they already want to be — to chat with someone on the other side of the screen. |
Svinarev describes his work simply: “I do affiliate marketing, specifically buying traffic to convert it on offers.”
To put it in plain affiliate terms: you buy impressions and clicks in one place (an ad network) → send people to a dating offer in another (affiliate network), and if the difference between what you spent on traffic and what the affiliate paid you is positive — congrats, you’re in profit.
In short, dating traffic arbitrage looks like this
The demand here is real. According to Kaspersky Lab, about 48% of people download dating apps to “meet new people,” 41% are looking for friends, and 24% are serious — seeking long-term relationships. The online dating and dating app market is worth about $6 billion with an audience of around 360 million people. $3.3 billion went to the “dating holding” Match Group, and the most downloaded app in 2025 was Tinder. Svinarev, for example, calls dating “an ocean with countless ways to swim in it” because of numbers like these.
The vertical is split into two major camps: mainstream and adult. The difference is not just in the type of images used in creatives, but also in how you earn, where you run traffic, and how often you get banned.
What is Mainstream Dating
Mainstream dating refers to “respectable” dating. These are sites and apps where people create profiles, swipe through photos, and chat in hopes of a date, a relationship, or at least some light flirting. This category includes giants like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo—industry benchmarks for product features like swiping, women making the first move, and engagement quizzes.
Mainstream is considered a white zone: creatives pass moderation on most platforms, and the offers themselves rarely raise issues with payment systems. Payment here is usually based on lead generation—per registration or confirmed profile.
Adult Dating — How It Differs
Adult traffic arbitrage is dating “for adults”: sites for quick hookups, webcam, and 18+ content. The creatives are different, the offers are different (like OneNightFriend or FuckBook), and the moderation process is fundamentally different.
The main difference is that adult is almost never allowed on “white” platforms. Facebook, Google, and TikTok openly reject it, so traffic is driven through pre-landers, tube sites, push and popunder networks, where 18+ content is accepted. In adult, earnings usually come not from a single registration, but over the long term—through sales and a percentage of user spending (more on that below).
By the way, dating also has narrow sub-niches—gay dating, casual, speed dating.
What Pays: Payment Models in Dating
Before choosing a GEO and traffic source, you need to understand what the affiliate program actually pays for. There are several models, and they determine how easy dating arbitrage will be for beginners.
- SOI (Single Opt-In) — payment for registration without confirmation. The user leaves an email or fills out a short profile—that’s it, the lead is counted. The GoAff editor used to run dating traffic this way.
- DOI (Double Opt-In) — same as above, but the user also has to confirm their email via a link. The lead pays more, but conversions are lower: some people never get to the email. According to various industry media, SOI usually converts 2-4 times higher than DOI (depending on GEO and offer).
- PPS / CPS (Pay Per Sale) — payment for a sale: the user not only registered but also paid for a subscription or service. High payout per conversion, but hard to test: to get statistically significant data with a $70 payout per lead, you need hundreds of leads.
- RevShare — you get a percentage of all user spending over a period. In dating, this is usually 30-70% over 30-180 days, and a single paying user can bring in $100-300. This model is for the patient: the money comes in gradually.
- Which model should a beginner choose for dating arbitrage? Here it’s worth listening to someone who’s been running dating traffic since 2018. Svinarev fundamentally works with lead-based payments, not sales:
“I don’t work with Cost per sale model in dating… In my opinion, it’s usually easier to work with dating this way — I get all the leads that hit my tracker.”
The logic is simple: dating advertisers make money not only from sales.
“They have a whole huge and very complex ‘kitchen’,” says Svinarev. “They resell traffic in member zones and monetize it with push notifications.” So a user might never make a purchase, but the advertiser will still recoup their costs through banners, popunders, and push subscriptions on the site. When you work for sales, according to Svinarev, “you’re cutting your final EPC yourself” — voluntarily giving up part of your income.
Takeaway for getting started — how to make money on dating: look for SOI or DOI offers. They’re easier, cheaper to test, and provide faster feedback.
Best GEOs for Dating and Adult
Geo (from geo — country or region of traffic) determines almost everything: traffic price, payout size, and competition level. Dating GEOs in affiliate marketing are divided into three “tiers” based on audience purchasing power.
Tier-1 — high payouts and tough competition
Tier-1 means wealthy countries: USA, UK, Canada, Australia, Germany, France, Scandinavia. Payouts here are the highest, but clicks are expensive. For example: according to LosPollos payout table, CPL for Norway reaches $4.95, Australia — $4.00, USA — $3.60. In other networks, depending on traffic volume, rates can be even higher.
Sounds tempting until you remember the competition. Entering Tier-1 as a beginner is like opening a coffee shop right across from Starbucks: lots of foot traffic, but you’ll be crushed by those who got there first and have money. Svinarev himself admits that native ads in Tier-1 “are very expensive: clicks at 20 cents, offer payouts at $50” — meaning there’s almost no room for error.
Tier-2 and Tier-3 — easier entry with a small budget
Tier-2 includes solvent but less “squeezed” countries: Poland, Czech Republic, Brazil, Mexico, Japan, Romania. Payouts are lower, but clicks are dirt cheap. Tier-3 (Africa, Southeast Asia) offers huge volumes at up to $0.02 per click, but payouts are low — $2–15 per conversion.
This is exactly where Svinarev recommends beginners go — for cheap experience, not quick money:
“For such people, I can safely recommend trying dating in GEOs with cheap leads, like LATAM. For example, there are good offers in Colombia. You can practice and get stats for $20, and already get a bunch of leads.”
Twenty dollars spent — and you see real clicks, real leads, and learn to analyze. As he puts it, your head starts “pulling the strings.” This is much more useful than burning the same budget on Tier-1 and not even understanding what happened.
Asia, LATAM, Eastern Europe — 2026 Destinations
From the latest: besides the classic Tier-1, LATAM (Mexico, Brazil, Colombia, Chile) is considered a working region for dating. Eastern Europe is also mentioned as an active region, but without clear breakdowns by rates — there’s little precise data in open sources.
A separate trend for 2026 is AI dating: virtual companions and AI chats, with offers already appearing for them. If you’re looking for where to focus for the future, this is definitely it.
Traffic Sources for Dating and Adult
A source is where you buy (or get for free) people’s attention. There are many, and each behaves differently for dating. Let’s go through the main dating traffic sources.
SEO — Doorways and Tube Sites
SEO in dating is a long game: you build sites for search traffic (or churn out doorways) and place offers on them. In adult, the classic is porn tubes with built-in smartlinks. The plus — organic volume can be huge. The minus — it’s slow and technically complex, not easy for a beginner to jump in.
Push and Popunders — Genre Classics
Push notifications and popunders (a popunder is a window that opens under the main one) are the workhorses of the vertical and the most beginner-friendly paid source. Entry threshold is low: you can fund a push network from about $100, and clicks are dirt cheap at the start — push CPC from $0.005, popunder CPM from $0.5 (RichAds).
Push is like an SMS from an unknown number, but in your browser: a short message with a photo that pops up over everything. And here’s another working tip from Mikhail Svinarev — subscription freshness: “From 0 to 3 days is the freshest subscription — these users convert best. Then usually comes 3-6, that’s the differentiation.”
In other words: the “newer” the push network subscriber, the more likely they are to click and register. This is a parameter you should definitely pay attention to when buying traffic.
Native Advertising
Native (native — ads disguised as regular site content) works for dating through pre-landers like “articles” and “reviews”: someone reads something like “5 dating sites that really work” and clicks through. Clicks are cheap — native CPC from $0.001 (RichAds). For hardcore adult, moderation in native networks is stricter, so mainstream is more common here.
Facebook and Instagram
Facebook and Instagram offer huge reach and at the same time are the main headache for dating arbitrage. The platform is, to put it mildly, not friendly to dating. Svinarev puts it not exactly diplomatically:
“FB is very strict about dating. Apparently Zuckerberg’s personal beliefs or something. To hell with Facebook.”
Behind this joke lies a real wall of lament for advertisers. Officially, Meta allows dating service ads only after written approval: you need to apply and disclose information about the service, and in practice, it’s easier for those behind the actual product to pass this barrier. Everything else falls into a gray area. That’s why affiliates disguise dating apps as “entertainment,” so users associate them with dating, but moderation algorithms do not.
By 2026, the rules have tightened even more: AI moderation catches violations more accurately, and there’s no more “easy money” on Facebook. It’s a system: warmed-up backup accounts, “white” landers, constant analytics, inevitable bans. The testing budget here starts at $200. If you’re a beginner, this shouldn’t be your first source.
This is also the place to explain cloaking, because you can’t talk about Facebook without it. Cloaking is a technology where the same URL shows two different pages. Moderators and bots see a harmless “white” page (white page or whitepage), while real users land on the “black” page (black page or blackpage) — with the actual offer.
It’s important to understand the framework: “gray” cloaking violates platform rules, but by itself is usually not against the law — it’s a breach of user agreement, not a criminal offense. The risks here are not jail, but account bans, domain bans, and frozen budgets.
The 2026 trend is moving away from cloaking towards “white” landers (neutral reviews and articles that smoothly lead to the offer) as a more stable option. And as Svinarev himself honestly admits, he’s not a fan of all this moderation evasion: “I don’t like all these things related to account bans, even if you’re running everything allowed. It doesn’t fit my idea of a normal business process.”
TikTok
TikTok is the territory of UBT (conditionally free traffic). You create an account, regularly post short videos, and lead people via the link in your bio to a quiz, lander, or Telegram. You can’t drive traffic straight to the offer — you need to warm up the audience. It requires almost no money, but a lot of manual work: accounts, videos, rotation — even if you use AI. Works well for mainstream dating and driving traffic to dating sites.
YouTube
YouTube works for dating through Shorts — short warm-up videos with a link. This source requires content, but the returns can be solid. In one public case, the “YouTube → dating” bundle brought in $1,229 in two months.
Which source should you choose at the start? Answering this question in 2023, Svinarev votes for push: “For beginners, I think [push] is one of the most favorable right now, because there are fewer entry barriers than, for example, in native. The amount of data you’ll buy for each dollar will be much higher.” Translation: for the same money, push will give you more clicks and more experience than expensive native or the minefield of Facebook.
How to Create Creatives for Dating and Adult Offers
The creative (ad image or video) is not “half the battle”—it’s almost everything. Svinarev assesses its impact bluntly: “An adult/dating offer in any classic affiliate setup is half the battle first and foremost. In some cases, it’s 90%.”
What works in mainstream dating arbitrage
In mainstream, everything is built on a sense of reality. What works:
- photos of regular people, not glossy models—otherwise the brain recognizes it as an ad and skips it;
- imitation of a personal message: a push that looks like “you have a new message from Anna”;
- quiz surveys with personal questions (“who are you looking for?”);
- short videos with a direct “invitation.”
| The main rule is don’t lie too blatantly. The creative must match what the user sees after the click, or they’ll close the tab in two seconds. |
What works in adult
In adult, the intensity is higher, but the principle is the same—use pre-landers, not vulgarity for its own sake. Common tactics:
- fake chats—imitating a conversation as if someone is already messaging you;
- mini-games and “take the test to get access,” age checks (create a sense of exclusivity);
- pseudo-news pages and review pages;
- countdowns and “only 2 profiles left in your city.”
Different sources need different pre-landers: for push, hype clickbait works; for Facebook and teasers—stories and pseudo-news pages. A common rookie mistake is overloading the pre-lander with text: people don’t read, they skim. One extra paragraph—conversion drops.
Comparison table: what works in mainstream dating arbitrage and what beginners need to know about adult dating
Spy services for analyzing competitors’ creatives
Spy services (from “spy”) show which creatives competitors are already running. This saves weeks of testing: you’re not reinventing the wheel, you see what’s working right now. The main services often mentioned by affiliates in reviews:
- AdHeart — Facebook and Instagram, database of about 900 million creatives;
- AdPlexity — mobile, push, native, from $199 per month, with landing page export;
- Anstrex — push and native;
- AdSpy — Facebook and Instagram;
- BigSpy — TikTok, FB, YouTube, has a free plan;
- Facebook Ads Library — free, directly from Faceboo.
But don’t treat spy tools as the ultimate truth. Svinarev, who’s been using them for years, cools down beginners’ enthusiasm like this:
“A spy tool is often a distorted mirror: what we see in the spy doesn’t always match reality. I myself regularly can’t find my own ads there, even though I’m running large volumes.”
So, a spy tool is a hint for direction, not an exact map. Your own testing always has the final say.
Offers or Smartlink: What to Choose
Every beginner faces a fork in the road: pick specific dating offers for arbitrage or run traffic to a smartlink?
Smartlink is a “smart” link not tied to a single offer. On click, it analyzes the user (geo, device, OS, browser) in a split second and automatically serves the most suitable offer. A rough but useful comparison: a smartlink is like a buffet where the system puts on your plate what you’re most likely to eat, while a direct offer is ordering from the menu, where you know exactly what you’ll get.
When to use a smartlink: during testing, when traffic is mixed and you can’t narrow down the segment; when geo is undefined and you’re running broad reach; when you don’t want to create dozens of landers for each country. For getting started, it’s often a smart choice—less manual work, and the system optimizes for you.
When to use a direct offer: when geo and segment are known and narrow, and you have a specific landing page for them. In this case, a direct offer usually pays more per conversion and gives you more control over the funnel—smartlink by nature averages things out.
Practical tip: if you already know the geo, don’t try to guess the offer alone—ask your affiliate manager. Svinarev directly calls this one of the best ways for beginners: “Ask a decent manager from a decent network. They’ll recommend landers, offers, everything. Most of the time, it all works.”
Affiliate Networks for Dating and Adult
An affiliate network (CPA network) is the middleman between you and the advertiser: it provides offers, tracks your leads, and pays you. Whether you get your earnings depends on its honesty. So first, let’s see how to choose, whether there are dating networks without shave, and then the list.
What to Look for When Choosing a Network
- Shave — underreporting your leads to pay you less. The main risk in this vertical. More on this below.
- Hold — how many days your money is “on hold” before payout. For dating smartlinks, it’s typically 7 days for the first payout, then no hold.
- Minimum payout and payment frequency. For beginners, a low withdrawal threshold and frequent payments are important—this helps avoid cash gaps when buying traffic.
- Geo and offer type. Does the network’s strength match your geos? Is it mainstream or adult? (Mixing prohibited adult traffic with mainstream offers is a direct path to bans and balance confiscation.)
- Manager. Is it a real person who suggests offers and provides reports, or just a bot with template responses?
It’s worth talking openly about shaving, since most guides skip a real discussion of it. Shaving is real, but happens less often than beginners think: established networks value their reputation, while newer ones are more likely to do it. And an important note: often the affiliate is to blame—running incentivized traffic or bots, but thinking they’re being ‘shaved.’ Always check your links and traffic source first.
How to detect shaving: run the same offer on 2–3 networks at once and compare (if one shows 30 leads and another 3 with the same traffic, it’s a red flag); watch for sudden drops in approval rates; do a test conversion yourself; use your own tracker to see real clicks independent of the network’s stats. By the way, this is exactly what the debate about ‘retroactive rejections’ is about—as Mikhail explains here, sharing why he values honest affiliate programs:
“If you saw [a lead in the tracker via postback], then, like in a public offer agreement, that’s your earned money. Any deductions and retroactive rejections after that are very unethical in my view—it opens the door to abuse.”
So it’s more honest to look for a network with a proven reputation than to chase the mythical ‘dating affiliate without shaving’ or the best dating offers. No one gives guarantees; the only real protection is your own tracker and running traffic to several networks in parallel.
Top Dating Affiliate Networks 2026
The list below features networks that people actually work with. I include both strengths and complaints from reviews: a glossy ‘4.9 out of 5’ rating on aggregators means nothing by itself.
- LosPollos — a smartlink network where many start testing dating. Global coverage, weekly payouts on Tuesdays, minimum withdrawal from $100. Cons from reviews: lack of transparency (you can’t see which offer your traffic actually goes to) and complaints about ‘sudden drops in conversion rates.’
- Trafee — mainly an adult smartlink with AI optimization and its own tracking platform. Minimum payout is $100, 7-day hold only on the first payment. Reviews mention account bans with balance—read the rules about proxies and geos before running traffic.
- MyLead — a broad multi-vertical network (claiming 5,500+ offers), including mainstream dating. Main advantage for beginners: low minimum payout from $20 and fast payments. Downside: complaints about account blocks with balance confiscation for rule violations, so read the rules carefully.
- Adverten — a dedicated dating network since 2016, strong in Tier-1, Italy, and Brazil, with exclusive offers. According to reviews, relatively clean on shaving, and is directly called a ‘no-shave’ affiliate program.
- MTRAF is a young dating network (website mtraf.io), smartlink, minimum payout from $50. There is little data on it, and its reputation hasn’t stood the test of time—worth trying, but test with a small budget. Essentially aggregates several smartlinks.
If you’re unsure where to start, Trafee for its low entry threshold and LosPollos for its reputation make more sense for your first steps. But always test everything with your own traffic.
Cases: real results in dating and adult
The numbers below are from public cases with proof. I don’t take pretty screenshots with sky-high ROI without confirmation: in dating, people lie as readily as in any other vertical.
- Native ads to smartlink, ROI 111%. Setup: native traffic to AdsEmpire dating smartlink, GEOs — USA, Sweden, Netherlands, Poland, and others. For the month (November 2021): spent $3,894, revenue $8,238, profit $4,344, ROI 111%.
- Adult dating in the US via push, ROI 167%. Traffic — push from ExoClick and Clickadu plus banners from ClickAdilla, offer OneNightFriend from AdsEmpire. For a week (early 2022): spent $1,500, revenue $4,000, profit $2,500, ROI 167% — about $600 profit per day.
- UBT on YouTube Shorts, ROI 571%. Almost no budget: free traffic from YouTube Shorts, iMonetizeIt smartlink. October 2022: spent $210, revenue $1,408, profit $1,200, ROI 571%.
| What do successful cases have in common? A narrow setup: one source — one offer — one GEO, not “running traffic everywhere.” This is exactly the replication principle that Svinarev promotes: “We look at what people are running now, in which GEO, and for starters just repeat their setup. At the initial stage, don’t invent anything yourself.” |
And now a reality check. There are tons of hyped-up cases and outright scams around dating and UBT: big numbers in TikTok screenshots, courses promising “just run dating and make a million.” Don’t trust such numbers without stat screenshots and a verifiable source—behind a flashy case is often a course for sale, not real profit.
These genuine cases are further proof that adult traffic arbitrage can be very profitable
Conclusion
Dating is a rare vertical that forgives beginners’ mistakes: you can start with $20 on LATAM, get experience with push traffic, and not go broke on your first test. It’s evergreen not because guides say so, but because people will never stop looking for each other—confirmed by both market numbers and affiliates who’ve been running it for years.
But it’s not easy — you won’t figure out how to run dating offers in just a couple of days. Facebook is fighting against dating, bundles don’t last long, and you have to constantly look for new ones. So the main advice at the start is: don’t spread yourself too thin. As Mikhail says: “You need to focus on something and keep hitting the same spot.” Take one GEO, one traffic source, one offer type — and make this bundle profitable before moving on to the next.
And keep in mind his own warning about getting dizzy from your first money: “Sometimes results come too fast and it can hurt you. You lose your footing, you start thinking you’re already a pro and don’t need to work anymore. It all ends when the bundle ends. Then the depression starts.” Dating is a marathon, not a lottery ticket.
FAQ
It’s earning money by driving traffic to dating sites and apps. You bring users, the affiliate program pays for registration, profile confirmation, or subscription payment.
You can practice on LATAM with as little as $20. But to really get into the business and learn, you should have $3,000–$5,000. That’s a testing budget, not for a single campaign.
Mainstream means “decent” dating. These usually pass moderation on white-hat platforms. Adult is 18+ content, almost never allowed on Facebook* and Google, run through push, popunders, and tubes, and more often monetized via sales and RevShare.
In theory, any. But of course, it’s best to start testing with push and popunder traffic. Low entry threshold (from ~$50), cheap clicks, and maximum experience per dollar spent. Facebook*, SEO, and the rest are better left for later.
No one gives an absolute guarantee. 'No shave' means a proven reputation, not a promise. The only protection: your own tracker and running the same offer on 2–3 networks in parallel for comparison.
For testing and mixed traffic, usually a smartlink: the system will pick the offer itself. If you know the GEO and segment, a direct offer gives you more control and higher payouts. For certain GEOs, coordinate the offer with your affiliate manager.
It’s mainly needed to bypass Facebook* moderation for adult and gray offers. This violates platform rules and risks account and domain bans.
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